We live in a society, if you want it to be a better place you have to engage with others.
Not without boundaries. It’s amazing to be able to interact with people from all over the world, but not all interactions are useful or genuine.
I don’t have issues with people blocking me or the communities I am active in. I found the whole tesseract thing shady because it wasn’t transparent, but I don’t think some great harm has occurred because people can’t see me yap.
I routinely block communities that aren’t interesting to me, so that browsing All is easier. I also block comms or people that make me compelled to argue (vs discuss). For example, if I am feeling compelled to defend myself to someone who is putting words in my mouth instead of asking me what I meant then I think the wise thing for me to do is probably just block and move on. They aren’t interested in understanding me and I’m just wasting energy. I don’t always achieve this, but it’s certainly healthier than trying to dissect where the interaction went wrong and getting angry at a stranger. They can fuck up and make assumptions just as well as I can. They don’t need my anger in their life.
It’s draining enough to work on effective communication IRL. I’m not going to be able to do that for the whole world.
Not without boundaries. It’s amazing to be able to interact with people from all over the world, but not all interactions are useful or genuine.
I don’t have issues with people blocking me or the communities I am active in. I found the whole tesseract thing shady because it wasn’t transparent, but I don’t think some great harm has occurred because people can’t see me yap.
I routinely block communities that aren’t interesting to me, so that browsing All is easier. I also block comms or people that make me compelled to argue (vs discuss). For example, if I am feeling compelled to defend myself to someone who is putting words in my mouth instead of asking me what I meant then I think the wise thing for me to do is probably just block and move on. They aren’t interested in understanding me and I’m just wasting energy. I don’t always achieve this, but it’s certainly healthier than trying to dissect where the interaction went wrong and getting angry at a stranger. They can fuck up and make assumptions just as well as I can. They don’t need my anger in their life.
It’s draining enough to work on effective communication IRL. I’m not going to be able to do that for the whole world.