I know that’s why I dislike it. Swingers do nonmonogamy differently from me and thus they must be my primary enemy, even above the people who oppose all nonmonogamy
After I started thinking of all -phobic terms as “running away in fear, screaming”, much like my very reasonable and involuntary reaction to wasps, the term can at least trigger amusing thoughts.
I know that’s why I dislike it. Swingers do nonmonogamy differently from me and thus they must be my primary enemy, even above the people who oppose all nonmonogamy
After I started thinking of all -phobic terms as “running away in fear, screaming”, much like my very reasonable and involuntary reaction to wasps, the term can at least trigger amusing thoughts.