- Most outrageous / unbelievable lies
- Most offensive / dangerous lies
- Most “adult meant it as genuine advice but it’s laughably out of touch” lies
- Lies you wish you still believed
- Lies you took as truth and didn’t question it until you were way too old
Life experience will show you that women are completely obsessed with sex to the point that for most, it’s the main thing they think about.
I don’t want that to be true, but it is.
I’m gender fluid so I move easily between spaces. Ever been to mans night? We talk about hobbies, news, technology, games, hobbies, our kids, career aspirations, etc. Go to woman’s night and it’s non-stop penises, sexual conquest, shitty exes.
It’s just really hard for people to accept that most of what women project on men, is just that, projection. I will not back off that women are vastly more interested in sex than men.
I also really don’t need to hear your lectures, I’m telling you a series of lies I was told as a child. I’d like to invite you to calm down, read when I’m saying, and try to understand versus thinking about how it upsets you and why you disagree. I also don’t want to hear your regurgitated social media opinions, they are fatiguing and they are pointless and they are meritless.
I am calm and not upset (as ironic as it is to say: I can disagree without big emotions involved). I am not lecturing you, just providing you with actual experiences that are different from yours since I am a bi cis woman familiar with toxic masculinity (the lies you were told). I think you assumed a lot here but I did not mean to come off as upset, angry, lecturing a small child, etc. I would appreciate if you also read my words in a more neutral head space. While we may talk about our relationships when we hang out, we do not obsess over sex like you said and do talk about other things. It’s disheartening that you have reduced women and ‘girls night’ to penises, sex, and exes. These are my actual opinions and life experiences but if you think it’s all regurgitated social media that fatigues you then maybe you should listen more to us instead of shutting us out is all I’m saying at this point. You mention being gender fluid so maybe you could hang out in more feminist spaces, there’s some on lemmy even and the trans spaces have been very welcoming. We’re all just trying to be more kind in this cruel world.