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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • I personally see tact as a separate skill from maturity. I know plenty of grown adults who lack tact. I wouldn’t call them immature myself.

    This simple display was not really that disruptive, it really reminds me of when the NFL players were taking a knee. Your argument against this display is very similar to the argument conservatives used to shutdown them down during that controversy.

    You seem to be saying that this actor took away from the production by doing this. I don’t think this is accurate. I don’t think this quick display of a flag without even saying a word took away from anything. In fact, the overreaction is more of a problem than what the actor did.

    I think you are probably right about bands and other single acts having more leeway to make their politics known, but even then you have artists like the Dixie Chicks who got blackballed for saying an offhand comment many Americans agreed with at the time.


  • They don’t intercept anything honestly. They either buy it or receive it through PRISM. Saying they intercept it really isn’t the right word when Internet companies literally allow them into their interconnect locations (IXP) to install NSA hardware. I suppose technically you could still call it intercept, but it is more like they just listen to all traffic without any actual clandestine action.






  • Alzheimer’s is a hell of a disease. I have worked with people who have Alzheimer’s for decades now. I am always hoping they are going to be able to reverse or even stop the damage. They are closer than ever before, but the reality of all those people I had hope for have already passed.

    There are no easy answers here. I knew an elder who always said if he got Alzheimer’s he would take himself out. Guess what? He got Alzheimer’s and forgot to.

    Another lady I worked with was pretty far into her dementia. I was sitting with her in the morning and she was drinking coffee. Suddenly she made eye contact and said, “I am scared because my mind is going, things I used to remember are gone and I struggle to realize all the people I have lost.” She lost focus after this and started staring off into space.

    They are still in there, I know it. I will never forget this one elder I had been working with for awhile. Their son came to visit and we were all sitting there talking about their care. The elder forgot who their son was and said that I was their son and starting arguing with them. Seeing their actual family member realize their grandmother no longer recognized them sucked so bad.