Quicky

Performance as in performative

It is already, and I hate to say it, in no small part to the decomp/recomp scene and how AI has revolutionised that.

I also choose this guy’s first kiss.

I think you missed the point of this. I believe it was her influence more than his, based on other factors I’m aware of.

Unless you’re referring to the writers of the church doctrine as the controlling men.

An old JW boss of mine almost lost his wife during the birth of his first child when she was badly haemorrhaging at home.

I tried asking him about it (a few years after the event) and he was obviously defensive, but the gist was that they wouldn’t have taken a transfusion, and that he would have accepted losing her.

I’m not convinced - I think the decision was more dictated by her than him - but that would have been the end result.

Absolute madness