I’m lame. I play xbox bf6 and helldivers 2. I play other things, but I’m a parent with a business my partner and I run.

If I say something that makes me look like an asshole, I probably was, but I know this and I work to not be that way.

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  • Nah. I don’t own my partner’s pussy, but we have been together for over a decade now. We have learned to talk about EVERYTHING. So that we don’t cross and boundaries we have put down.

    I think most folks don’t even think about talking. We talked for 3 years before we ever did anything with anyone. We roleplayed it with toys and porn. Etc etc.

    The first step is communication. Most folks dive head first without considering how they might actually feel.


  • Ah I gotcha. See for me, I’m not jealous. I’m also not ashamed of myself. My genetics gave me a bit more than average.

    I can have a mfm or fmf encounter without it ruining my relationship. Which is fun.

    Racist parts ya. Definitely see that. They do treat black men like objects, which I really never thought about until now.

    Will say I have had better times with a black man than a white man. Not for any stereotype shit, but for me, imo, white men tend to run their mouths and act like they are king shit. Black men are just chill about it. That’s just what I’ve run into so far though.


  • Eh. It’s fine if you aren’t into it, but I just think it’s shitty to kink shame folks.

    But as someone else said there is the racists side of it for some. Which ya…that’s not okay.

    I just find it such a shitty thing to do is to go after what someone might be into.

    But at the same time I guess it’s like calling someone a cocksucker. I like sucking dick, but have used it as an insult as well.

    Ah to be human right?


  • Salamanderwizard@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.world•Kink Shame
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    Okay so why the hate towards cucks? I have known cucks and even been the guy who was fuckkng their girlfriend. None of em were conservative.

    They were actually really down to earth dudes who just had a kink.

    On top of they had great sex lives. The cuck thing was just a small part of it. Their woman wasn’t unhappy either. And no not like “I’m getting filled by a bigger cock” Type of happy. But the “we are secure in our relationship and can do things like this with out being jealous.”

    Seriously. What’s the deal with the hate on the poor folks. Hell being a cuck can be a female thing to. My partner loves the idea of me being with another woman.

    Edit: appreciate the answers y’all. Knew Lemmy would have folks who had clear thoughts on it.






  • I’m not gonna lie. I stumbled on lemme by mistake, looking for a way around Reddit IP ban.

    I’ve enjoyed the hell out of y’all’s company and conversations. Truly. Not everyone here likes me, but for most part I don’t feel like any one here is a bigot of any kind.

    But…dear fucking God I do not understand a goddamn thing about any of the shit y’all talk about when it comes to any of that.