I have. And I think folks should be able to talk about it without being stigmatized or harassed for sharing their experiences.
I have. And I think folks should be able to talk about it without being stigmatized or harassed for sharing their experiences.
The other aspect of not discussing it is even if it’s acceptable some people get hurt about it. Even though you know you can you don’t, because it’s upsetting.
I have been assaulted. In the early years I wanted to talk about it, some people would but I felt like a weirdo discussing it, like I could handle it more than them. And then when you are calm and cool when discussing it there’s those who accuse you of being too cold about it. The people around me who love me can’t handle it, then it stopped being discussed it and it becomes a sad dirty little secret.
Well if they really loved you they would accept that there are times when you a human have reached your limt and you just cant discuss it or sometimes you can discuss it.
WE are all humans right? Right. We all have limits as all humams do. The right time for each person to discuss or tackle an issue is when they feel comfortable with it.
If theu never discuss that difficult issue ? Oh well. At least that abused person was vulnerable enough to reveal that its a painful topic. People should be happy with even small moments of vulnerability just like that.
Sorry for your pain 🫂