E: this baby dicked Honda owner is laughing at the responses.

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      Modesty about sex and Victorian propriety is alive and well with gen Z. Calvinist resurgence.

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        Nothing to do with propriety. Reducing first sexual experiences to insignificance is harmful, imo. It isn’t insignificant, whether it’s good or bad, it’s pretty influential on sexual development. Trying to enforce meaninglessness is problematic. Most people will feel a significance in their first time and an oppressive culture that demands we act like it’s meaningless is not progress, it’s repression.

        It’s a good thing imo that people can experience their first time honestly. Not trying to force it to confirm to any cultural norm, including those demanded by progressives who act wise but teach ideology. Let people experience their first time authentically, whatever that is.

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          Which means no purity culture. BY NOT PUTTING ANY PRESSURE on the first time.

          If YOU tell your kids it is special than YOU don’t let them experience it how they naturally would.

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    Let’s smash the patriarchy without classist bullshit. The implication here is that only a man with an expensive car could possibly be taken seriously as a romantic partner.

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    Eh. Good message wrapped up in weird body shaming, class shaming, vaguely misandrist ‘rhetoric’.

    This aint it. It’s close to it. They’re the same aisle. But it aint it.

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      I’m also not convinced that teaching your kids that sex is a non event is a good idea either.

      Also I’m confused about what’s wrong with the Honda civic, if you got one with all the optional extras it would be quite expensive, not that matters, but it’s just a weird vehicle to have chosen to indicate lack of money. Should have gone with something like a Nissan Micra, it would have still been the stupid take, but at least it would have made sense.

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        Thats why you hammer safe sex into them and that casual encounters are worth your consideration as well. This isn’t a one time discussion, it should be ongoing. It helps if you treat sex like something normal so the kids don’t feel stupid putting on a condome and respect EVERYBODY not just the “good girls” that